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The first date is stress, a clenched stomach, but also excitement and joy. We wonder what our meeting will be like. Will we find common topics for conversation? Will there be chemistry that will make us want more meetings? For this to happen, we must focus on the proper organization of the date itself. If we feel at ease and give ourselves a chance to have an honest conversation, it is very likely that this story will have a sequel.
First date idea - where is it worth going?
When we think about a first date, we immediately think about where to go. Here it is worth focusing primarily on naturalness. At the first meeting, it's not about showing that we have great taste and can find great art in theater. Although it may be beautiful then, it will probably be too artificial and the chance to get to know each other will disappear.
The first date should be organized where we can talk. Freedom and favorable circumstances count. Very often, dating people arrange walks or meetings in a cafe. Although it seems clichéd and boring, it still works! These are relatively cheap meetings, where we can afford to be natural and create a pleasant atmosphere.
Cafe or restaurant
This is a favorite that many people still prefer. If we are afraid that this choice is boring, it is worth choosing a cafe that we know and like. Currently, more and more atmospheric places are created that are kept in a given theme (e.g. literary cafes) or epoch (e.g. cafes from the beginning of the 20th century). Usually they guarantee a sense of intimacy and the possibility of free conversation.
We can also choose to have a restaurant and a shared dinner. Before that, it is worth making an appointment for a walk, during which we will break the ice and reduce the distance. Meeting directly for dinner can create unpleasant stress and an awkward atmosphere. And if we talk beforehand and feel better with each other, dinner can be a great start to something deep.
Beach or park
When we hear the word beach, we are faced with the sea or the ocean. And here's a mistake! If we think for a moment, it will turn out that in our area there are also rivers and small lakes where people relax and walk in the summer or during weekends. If it's spring or summer and good weather is promising, take a blanket, pillows, delicious snacks and arrange to spend the afternoon together. Usually, such a scenery is conducive to closeness and breaking down barriers, including physical ones.
If you do not want to go to the beach or there is no beach nearby, you should think about a park. Many larger parks have a meeting place on a blanket or on a bench. It is possible that there is a cafe near the park, so we can combine a walk with coffee and a delicious dessert. It will be tasty, atmospheric and intimate.
Date at home
Or maybe we live alone or we know that on this particular evening no one else will be at home, so we can afford to create a warm atmosphere? If it is cold or windy outside, and we are at home, it is worthwhile to arrange a meeting in your own four walls. However, even here it is not worth arranging dinner right away, but try to reduce the distance first.
Maybe you both like to play board games, card games or do puzzles? This is a seemingly ordinary activity that helps you easily break down barriers and get involved in the plot. At the same time, we can talk with her and we will quickly see if we feel at ease and want to continue the discussion. And only for the evening we can think about dinner. One option is to prepare it together. It will also bring us closer and make us feel natural.
Cinema or theater
We can also consider such a possibility, because it is also a frequently chosen place. If we are afraid that at first we run out of topics to talk to or that stress will stifle us, it is worth meeting in the cinema. After the screening, we should definitely go for a walk or to a cafe. The screening will provide us with initial topics and allow us to feel more confident with ourselves, and then we will see for ourselves if we feel good with ourselves and want to talk longer.
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